
Major and Jeremy
Television has become so annoying to me that I watch nowadays with the sound muted. This way I don’t have to keep muting or channel changing every time a commercial comes on. I really only occasionally glance at the screen to see if anything catches my eye. Suddenly, a few months ago, it happened. The local news was on. I see two dogs being led into a large cage. One is a very fat Beagle-like dog, wagging its tail like crazy. The other is a small white dog that appeared to be more concerned about what was going on, and not quite so happy. I clicked on the sound. This was a story about people giving up their dogs for adoption. The Beagle dog obviously thought that it was going into doggy day care or some really fun place; the white dog knew otherwise. I also knew otherwise and knew that they were both possibly going to the gallows. The Beagle was so ugly – big and fat with a head that was too small for the body, and was obviously not very astute. The dog reminded me of Major (Karen and my first dog – and predecessor of Scruffy). Major was always simply the best dog in the world. Needless to say he has his own chapter in my book. Major would never hurt a flea. He was the type of dog that if a child were to run and leap and land on him, he would just wag his tail and move to some other spot. Somehow, I knew that the Beagle had the same demeanor. I was so reminded of Major, even though the clip only ran a few seconds, that I decided to find the Beagle and adopt it.
After doing some research and making some calls, I found the dog in a rescue shelter. It was a 4-year-old female, and her name was Ruby. She had lived her whole life with the white dog, named Snowball who we were told was a Bichon. I adopted them both, not wanting to separate these life-long friends.
The first couple of weeks were a break in period. The main problem was our cat, Narla, who, as described in my book, is partially paralyzed. Both dogs obviously wanted simply to attack and kill the cat. It also was obvious that Snowball was the main problem. From the start, he was totally fixated on the cat (who we kept in the cat carrier when in the same room as the dogs). You could not pry Snowball’s face away from Narla’s direction. If left loose he would run to the cat carrier and begin trying to tear it apart to get to the cat. Looking at his face, I decided he was probably a Bichon- Jack Russel mix. Ruby was showing signs of learning to accept the cat and was certainly not fixated on the cat. Getting the cat became Snowball’s entire existence while in the house. Outside, he was a really great dog and a pleasure to walk with Ruby.
After a month or so, we made the dreaded decision to bring Snowball back to the shelter (a no-kill shelter). If you have read my book, you know how much this hurt. Perhaps the main theme of my book is about the commitment I think should be made to an adopted dog. We all should understand that a sudden change of circumstances such as trying to live with a new family or losing the one family you have been a part of all your life, is quite traumatic for a dog. The dog will almost certainly demonstrate very bad habits at first, no matter how good he once was as somebody else’s pet. I honestly was convinced that we would never be able to change Snowball’s behavior toward the cat. I am quite sure that Snowball has a lot of terrier in him, and killing small animals is in the terrier genes. The decision to return Snowball is one I will never forget. It hangs over me like a dark cloud right now. Couldn’t even a Russel be eventually trained to accept a cat as his friend –even if it might take months or years? We will never know.
On a happier note, Ruby seemed to adjust quite well to losing Snowball, probably because of the tons of attention we made sure to give her. She is our new queen and she knows it. She will always be my queen and number one dog in my life – that is my commitment to her. As you know, we know have a second dog – Charlie. He is still new. I am sure he will eventually mean as much to me as Ruby. Still, I will always make sure Ruby knows she is number one. Of course, Charlie (unbeknownst to Ruby) is also number one. Thus we have Queen Ruby and King Charles – rulers of my household.
2009 January
Jeremy, Major, Ruby